Love is “One of the arts that need to train.”
We can not use instruments well, can not make beautiful sounds from the beginning.
That way love will make a beautiful harmony after it was trained in endurance and respect.
3 types of Love
It is trained with purpose and plan, creative, dedicated, and sacrificial love.
It is growing up with mutual cooperation, sharing mind and experience. The love of friendship.
It is burning like fire, strongly love each other. This is passionate love.
These 3 types of love shape the nature of 4 kinds of love.
They become attracted each other the beginning of this love. Through they meet many times, they start to share themselves, help each other, devote for both of them. This is good balanced love.
Or they meet by introduction from their parents or trustworthy person at first, they may get close with many meetings and they will become attracted each other.
Self sacrificing love
Through they make an effort actively for both of them, their relationship will keep well. As is often the case with introduction from parents or trustworthy person, self sacrificing love arise.
It comes from wearing well as friends. Through they are sharing and helping each other, they get close more and more. One day they become attracted to both of them.
The drawbacks in this case, it has less passionate love because they may have deep friendship but they could have been less Eros.
They attracted each other impulsively. In real situation, many of them may not last long. When either of them looses their attraction which makes strong impulsion, they can not support their relationship and it was that love did end.
But even if they attracted each other impulsively, they get close and have a mind to devote for both, they can have the best love relationship like ①.
Which types of love would you like? We would like to make a purpose for ideal perfect love like ①, but it is not working well.
Because we have an original sin in our mind which makes us selfish.
For getting rid of this sin, Jesus Christ (God) came on the earth from heaven.
Jesus is only one God who has perfect love.
So, true love is in Jesus. We would like to grow up the perfect love with Jesus!